This pose can express more than words – from firmness to nervousness.
Body language often speaks for us more than we imagine. A quick gesture that seems insignificant at first glance can have a deep meaning. Some people tuck their hair behind their ears when they speak, some touch their hair a few times and some cross their arms. Each of these movements conveys something, even if we are not aware of it.
One of the most common gestures is the interlacing of fingers, which we do almost without realising it, but which can have different meanings depending on the context.
This gesture can be seen in work meetings, informal conversations and even in moments of tension. It is not a coincidence. Intertwining fingers can reflect safety, discomfort or even serve as anemotional barrier.It all depends on the situation and the accompanying body language.
Why do we intertwine our fingers when we speak?
The psychology of body language suggests that this gesture can reflect a range of emotions and attitudes. When a person interlaces their fingers and places them on the table or on their knees, this usually indicates concentration. This is typical of those who are processing information or thinking about a response.
In a professional environment, it can be a sign of authority and confidence. Many managers use this gesture deliberately to express confidence and control. If a person does this with a straight back and a high head, they probably want to show a strong posture.
But context changes everything. If the hands are tightly clasped and the fingers are tense, the interpretation is different. Many people behave this way when theyare under pressure or faced with an unpleasant situation.
Another variation is when someone intertwines their fingers while listening. If they do this in a relaxed manner and maintain eye contact, they are probably showing interest and willingness to participate in the conversation. However, if they avoid looking at the interviewer or shrug their shoulders, they may be insecure or uncomfortable with the topic.
On the other hand, it may also indicate an emotional barrier. When someone holds their hands clasped to their chest or stomach, they may be trying to protect themselves or create distance from the other person. This gesture is common in conversations when the person feels vulnerable or wants to avoid becoming too involved.
The meaning of clasped fingers depends on the context.
There is no single meaning of this gesture. It all depends on the situation, facial expressions and other body language. In a meeting, it can mean confidence and dominance, while in a job interview it can mean anxiety or nervousness.
So it is not enough to look at your hands. You need to read the whole picture: posture, gaze, tone of voice: is he relaxed or tense, does he avoid eye contact, is he open?
Once you notice this, analyse the person’s overall behaviour to get a clearer picture of what he or she is really conveying. After all, the body always says more than can be put into words.
